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Monday 25 August 2008

It's the SINGLE life for me!

Here is a snippet from an article I read today! Being single and enjoying frequent phone sex would seem to make for a very happy existence for those of us who "want to be alone".... Of course with your sexy phone sex therapist and counselor, you are NEVER ALONE!

Thanks to high divorce rates and the fact that young people are putting off marriage until later in life, could it be that we are finally (albeit grudgingly) embracing the notion that being single might just perhaps offer as much a guarantee of "living happily ever after" as does a life of monotony? Er, I mean monogamy and marriage.

In fact, never has so much ink been spilled on being single, with an abundance of books devoted to the subject. Sure, we are still defensive about being single in ways that coupled folk don't have to be. It's hard to imagine a book called "I'm Married, So Stop Giving Me a Hard Time," yet Even God is Single: (So Stop Giving Me A Hard Time) is right there next to books from which God herself might gather a few tips: Singles at the Crossroads: A Fresh Perspective on Christian Singleness and Single Purpose: A Devotional for Singles.

The Joy of Being Single is one of the few books out there that makes you feel like you could actually be happy being single. This is surprising when you look at the evidence. According to another study I came across, while "newlyweds experience a brief, emotional bounce after their wedding, they eventually return to the same outlook they had on life before they tied the knot."

And, yes, just as marriage does not ensure happiness, neither does being single. But being single deserves the same chance at making us happy, doesn't it? After all there are so many things to love about being single, like getting the whole bed to yourself, making plans without having to consult anyone but yourself and knowing that you're happier on your own than in a mediocre relationship!

DR. GRACE LILY STANTON - 866-461-8470 - I'm here to help. www.phonesexcounseling.net

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